(Gay) Mormon Guy: Peace. Heavenly Peace.: "Sometimes I spend a lot of time analyzing issues in my life. I don't always feel dramatic distress, but my mind is constantly whizzing from ..."
Mother's Day
11 years ago
Mary and Michelle are sisters. Mary and Michelle live together, and have done so since 2009. Everyone we know is married, and has the typical "Mormon Mommy" blog where they share the joys of parenthood and coupon-ing. So we felt left out (and bored), and created our own "Mormon Mommy" blog, except neither of us is married and neither of us are mommies. But we are Mormon! Ahlan wisahlan bikum.
Wow what a brave guy to have a blog about being gay and LDS. That would be so so hard. But I still think he shouldn't marry a woman. That's just not fair!!
ReplyDeleteTell me about it. He is (and by is I mean = it seems to me to be this way from reading his blog posts) absolutely great and his struggle is extremely genuine and so is his faith. As someone who fades in and out as an investigator because of being gay, I get the drive he has because he is a member of the church but also cannot fathom being so committed and so torn and so invested in finding a girl.
ReplyDeleteIf I were to be a member of the church I would definitely be on the celibacy bus, enjoying and fostering the relationships with the men I know and waiting out whatever changes may come. I admire him for what he is able to do, but I also hope that the better fit could come from being happily attracted to men rather than very vaguely attracted to perhaps maybe only the one woman he finds himself wanting to marry.
But then again I can't speak to his life, only my own.